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Spirit Fruits – Faithfulness

Pastor Mike Cherney

Hey there! Thanks for joining us once again to find peace and motivation today in God’s Word. Let’s continue to look at the fruits of the Spirit, described in Galatians chapter 5: 


But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. (Galatians 5:22-23a)


Today we’re going to take on: faithfulness. If you’ve been to a wedding, you remember the part that comes up about faithfulness, especially if that wedding was your own! At our church, we treat the wedding ceremony as a worship service: there are readings from Scripture, songs, and an encouraging message based on what God says about marriage. Then we get to a really important part. The soon-to-be newlyweds take each other’s’ hands, look into each other’s eyes, and say their vows. 


The vows written in the order of service we follow here end with this: “… I promise to be faithful to you as long as we both shall live.” The happy couple says that to one another, they exchange rings, maybe they share a smooch, then it’s on to the post-service celebration.


If you’re married, that was a very special day for you, wasn’t it? You promise to cherish your relationship with this person for as many days as you and they are breathing as your number one human relationship in life, and fight off anything that would threaten it!


Don’t think faithfulness is a key part of marriage? (No one honestly thinks that, I hope!) See how crucial it is when it’s taken away. If you are the victim or the perpetrator of a major breech in faithfulness, I don’t have to tell you about the kind of hurt it causes. Spouses were meant to honor, love, and protect one another, not harm one another by treating relationships with others as more important.


Even more important is our relationship to our Heavenly Father and Creator, God. So how does God approach his vows of faithfulness to us?


Know therefore that the Lord your God is God; he is the faithful God, keeping his covenant of love to a thousand generations of those who love him and keep his commandments. (Deuteronomy 7:9-11)


God made a vow, a covenant, with his people, and he is fiercely committed to keeping that vow. As Moses said in Deuteronomy, God has vowed to love those who love him and keep his commandments. 


This… could be a problem. God stands up and pledges his love for us sinners who left him at the altar. The Holy God promises to be faithful to a bunch of people who keep messing up, keep turning their backs on him?


Jesus Christ came to renew your vows. Out of unending love and commitment to you, God sent Jesus Christ to live and die for you, to forgive you of your unfaithfulness. Your covenant relationship with God is restored in Christ. Your past infidelity with him is erased, and he is happy to call you his. God’s love and faithfulness always outmatches ours, because that’s the kind of God he is. Paul says: 


If we are faithless, he remains faithful, for he cannot disown himself. (2 Timothy 2:13)


Whatever your past looks like, as many times as you’ve turned your back on God, know that he does not turn his back on you. You have not out-sinned his great grace. Come and join us as we walk together in God’s unchanging, faithful love, and learn together how to walk in faithfulness to him!



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By Pastor Mike 04 Nov, 2024
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HOW TO USE: This blog is written to serve as the basis for discussion. Find a partner or group to read through it together! Take turns answering the questions and listening to each other’s answers. Comment, email, or share your insights from your discussion with us! Your four-year-old’s voice pipes up from the backseat of your car. Time slows down as you hear those infamous words uttered in such a small and sweet voice. You’ve joked about this moment before, but now it’s happening to you. You would give anything to get out of this conversation, but you can’t. You’re stuck in the car with your kid who has just asked you, “Where do babies come from?” What do you do? You know what not to do. You know what you could say, but shouldn’t. You have known the answer to the question ever since you took your first biology class in high school. Ignorance is not what stresses you out; rather, how to frame your answer in an appropriate way that will satisfy your child’s curiosity, but save the troubling details for a later date. It’s hard to meet people where they’re at. Whether you’re answering your child’s complicated questions, or you’re trying to explain a concept to someone who barely speaks your language, you leave the conversation mentally exhausted or even frustrated. Therefore, when you read Acts 17, notice Paul’s tremendous ability to meet people where they’re at and speak to them on their level. Put yourself in his shoes, and imagine the effort he’s expending in this chapter to talk to people in terms they might understand. Then, imagine yourself going and doing the same thing, not in answer to awkward questions, but to the most joyful and important question, “So, what has Jesus done for me?” Read Acts 17 Standing before a congregation of Jewish folks in Thessalonica, Paul connects the Old Testament prophecies about the Messiah with their fulfillment in Christ. Standing before the Athenian elites, the foremost intellectuals of that part of the world in that time, he can’t start with the Old Testament, but instead finds common ground in the philosophies popular at the time. From there, Paul ventures to explain the significance of Jesus’ work. How do Paul’s methods explain what he means by “I have become all things to all people so that by all possible means I might save some” (1 Corinthians 9:22b)? Why do the Berean Jews get kudos for “fact-checking” Paul’s teaching? What about their process of “fact-checking” is the most worthy of imitation? To what degree is it appropriate to “second-guess” your spiritual leaders (pastors, teachers, etc.)? Paul was educated in the Hebrew Scriptures, and probably philosophy as well. Not all of us have access to high quality education, though. Brainstorm the ways we can learn about the thoughts and experiences of the people in our communities. What are your favorites? How can you use what you learn about how people think to do what Paul did: venture to explain the significance of Christ in words they’ll appreciate? From a business point of view, getting a few converts after his big speech in Athens might not have been worth the trouble and the ridicule. However, from a Kingdom point of view, the results were outstanding. Explain how this can be true. How far should a church be willing to go to meet people where they’re at? Is there a point at which a church can err by doing this too much? Where is that point? On the other hand, what dangers befall a church that isn’t willing to us “all possible means” in order to “save some” (1 Corinthians 9:22b again)?  God bless your meditation and discussion! Pastor Mike Cherney
By Pastor Mike 04 Nov, 2024
HOW TO USE: This blog is written to serve as the basis for discussion. Find a partner or group to read through it together! Take turns answering the questions and listening to each other’s answers. Comment, email, or share your insights from your discussion with us! When someone wants to join a church, what should they have to do? Does it seem inappropriate to require anything from people who just want to participate in the church’s ministry? Isn’t the gospel for everyone, and couldn’t making new members jump through hoops prevent people from hearing it? To be sure, the message of salvation through Jesus is one everyone needs to hear. Therefore, we must share it with everyone. However, we don’t want to info-dump about Jesus without sticking around for the inevitable follow-up question, “So, now what?” The Gospel of Luke shared the importance of the life, death, resurrection, and ascension of Jesus. The book of Acts, Luke’s second work, is a worth answer to the “So, now what?” question. Throughout the events of Acts, we have seen that the gospel is the Holy Spirit’s tool to change hearts (Romans 1:16,17). And we have also observed that where that gospel is preached and believed, communities form. The gospel creates relationships. “Churches” spring up in their proper sense (“church” in the New Testament means “gathering” or “congregation”). But when those churches form, the question, “So, now what?” resurrects. What do we do when we gather? How do we minister to people who are now coming to Christ, leaving behind various religious beliefs and practices? How should we conduct ourselves so as to fully enjoy the fellowship of being one in Christ? A church’s requirements for membership should never be an attempt to withhold the gospel from anyone. Instead, they will be the conscientious and Scripture-led answer to the question, “We all believe the gospel of Jesus. We want to enjoy the fellowship with each other that the gospel creates. So, now what?” Read Acts 15 to see the budding Christian Church work through their first major issue of what it means to belong to Christ and to belong to each other. What was the issue that kicked off this controversy? How did Peter reveal what was at the heart of this issue? James (the half-brother of Jesus) was recognized as a prominent leader in the congregation at Jerusalem, not because of his family relationship to Christ, but because of his character. How does he show his gifts as a Scripture-led leader of the church? How do Peter, James, and the leaders show their reliance on God’s Word to guide them through issues that arise in the church? How do Peter, James, and the leaders show concern for the diversity of the church? How do Peter, James, and the leaders show their understanding that they are supposed to be conduits of God’s grace? Why was it wise to draft a letter? Of the things new Gentile believers are supposed to avoid, “food sacrificed to idols,” eating food with blood still in it, and meat of strangled animals were all Old Testament Levitical laws (Leviticus 18:16-18) that found their fulfillment in the work of Jesus (Colossians 2:16-17). However, the Jewish Christians would have been so engrained in these dietary practices that they would still consider eating these things disgusting. Even though nothing is wrong with eating these types of meats, why is it wise to still ask that they not be served at church pot lucks? How does this show the concern for fellowship and cohesion? On the other hand, they mention that Gentile should abstain from sexual immorality (sex outside of marriage). This is not a matter of conscience, but is God’s clear plan for human sexuality. Yet, the Gentile Christians were so engrained by their hypersexualized culture that the reminder was absolutely necessary, What things does the church have the right to advise against, even though they may not be sinful in themselves? Is there a line that churches may cross in meddling too much in non-Scriptural areas of its members lives? If so, where is that line? If new members don’t fully understand God’s will for their lives and the sins they should avoid, how should the church go about helping them grow in that understanding? Is there a right way and a wrong way to do this? If so, what are they? What is the blessing of working through these tough conversations together? How must we imitate the leaders in Acts 15 as we do? God bless your meditation and discussion! Pastor Mike Cherney
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HOW TO USE: This blog is written to serve as the basis for discussion. Find a partner or group to read through it together! Take turns answering the questions and listening to each other’s answers. Comment, email, or share your insights from your discussion with us! What makes Christian music, movies, or books “Christian”? Is it that they mention theology, or God’s name? Is it that they reference Bible verses? Every movie, every song, every book reflects a perspective on life and spirituality, whether the author realizes it or not. Maybe during our study of Acts you have noticed that God is only referred to directly here and there. At first glance, the focus appears more to be on the human beings working in the church. Don’t be so easily fooled. Instead, notice in Acts chapter 12 the Bible’s teachings that underpin everything that happens: Specifically, eternal salvation, bearing the cross for Christ’s sake, and the futility of earthly leaders’ pride and conceit. Watch as God’s truth is “proved right” as He works beneath these world events, and trust that he will continue to do the same now and always. Read Acts 12:1-19 The death of the Apostle James is treated with one quick sentence. Peter’s miraculous prison break gets nineteen verses. Yet, both are accounts of God’s rescue. As James’ brother John wrote later on, “Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord from now on” (Revelation 14:13). James’ own ears had heard Jesus say, “The one who believes in me will live, even though they die” (John 11:16). Note: the James mentioned in Acts 12:17 is not the same that was martyred, but rather the human brother of Jesus and the leader of the Christian church in Jerusalem. In what ways did both James and Peter experience God’s rescuing power? If God promised to keep believers from suffering and give them long earthly lives, then he would have failed both James and Peter. Yet, God’s promise of eternal life is much greater. God is interested in much more than blessing your temporal life. He is playing for keeps; for eternity. How do the “rescues” of James and Peter both demonstrate this? The reaction of Rhoda to Peter’s rescue mimics the disciples’ reaction to Jesus’ resurrection appearances (John 20:19-29). Peter’s rescue was not a recognition of his worthiness of God’s favor, but more of a demonstration that God had more ministry to accomplish through him. What other evidence could the disciples recall from the events of Acts to reinforce their belief that God is a rescuing God? Read Acts 12:20-24 Once again in Acts, an earthly event is viewed through a spiritual lens. A doctor could have pronounced Herod’s cause of death as heart failure, an aneurism, or some other sudden life-taking event. Herod most likely did not live a healthy lifestyle by today’s standards. Yet Luke (the author of Acts) refuses to view his death as a purely medical or accidental event. This chapter has been a lesson in the fact that all our times are in God’s hands, whether believers or unbelievers – faithful witnesses, or vicious tyrants. How does this encourage you about your time of service on earth? How does this comfort you when you witness tyranny, injustice, and cruelty? What does this make you want to ask God for in your prayers? God bless your meditation and discussion! -Pastor Mike Cherney
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